Mars is not one to tolerate delays and restrictions, and is seldom concerned with outcomes. Then it would follow that there is a problem between the two involving immediate and deferred gratification. Mars-Saturn oppositions and squares often get stuck in the mud. oppositions, like squares, are dynamic and challenging, but if a person has a certain self-awareness, the aspect can actually help them to refine their approach to life through the other. My thought is that any opposition to Mars brings out the "you're not the boss of me" element in synastry.
She is not someone I rely on to give ME advice, and, if memory serves, unsolicited advice by well-meaning friends usually falls on deaf ears anyway when there is a budding love involved. We have, at times, told each other our woes, but never in great detail. I haven’t told her anything about what I found yet. (This last one could keep them busy for years, lol.) Could all of this alleviate the strain of those Mars-Saturn oppositions? his Chiron, and his Venus trine her Chiron. On the other hand, maybe it's really nothing considering that hey have some really nice things going on, like a Sun/Moon trine, and a Sun-Jupiter trine, and what some call the Cinderella aspect, her Venus conj. I have checked all the couples' charts I have stored, to see if anyone has this aspect, but none of them do. (What was I thinking – she is on Cloud 9!) I asked her (without telling her why) if she has the feeling that they might eventually clamp down on each other and try to smother the other’s energy and drive.
I told her I would do their synastry chart (I mean, why not - they seemed to mesh well!), and now I see to my consternation that they have a Mars-Saturn opposition! Both ways!! I’m kind of thrown by this. He seems nice enough, has a good sense of humor (in MY book, that’s a must!), and he’s obviously doting on her. We once went out together with another couple, and I got a good impression of him. I have a friend who seems to seriously consider marrying this guy she met not so very long ago.
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